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Is Love not enough?

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How do you know when you are made to love? Is it when there is a firey feeling inside when you are happy? or is it when you don't feel loved and decide to express it to another? According to Mark Manson , in Love Is Not Enough , love is a choice. Love is not a feeling and it is not to be idolized. Mark mentioned that is not a guaranteed compatibility. We can love something that is unhealthy for us (Hamburgers, McDonald's, Fatty acids), but just because we love it doesn't mean it is good for you. Mark mentions to use your heart and mind when making mating decisions, not just your heart. God says to use wisdom in all things, proverbs 4:7 , and wisdom is more precious than rubies and gold. Mark mentioned the harm in idolizing love and not understanding what it means to know how love looks. He mentioned to look at your compatibility partner like how to look at what you would put up with a friend https://markmanson.net/love.Retrieved January 15th,2018 "But li...

Mended to Love

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Please read from mastering marriage facebook page..the link is at the bottom👇 be encouraged! What do you do when your spouse is reluctant about the marriage? Do you stand and fight for your marriage or do you let them leave? What do you do if you feel that God is calling you to fight for your marriage? Are you properly equipped? I know for me, I was not properly equipped when I received the mandate from God to fight for my marriage and for my husband’s salvation. In the beginning of that season, I was clueless as to where to start. I desperately wished for a resource that was written from the mindset of a reluctant spouse…one that could clue me in to not only what he was thinking but why he thought that way. What did he mean when he told me that he no longer loved me? What happened to his relationship with God? What was broken inside of him and why was he avoiding the pain? I had tons of questions about my husband when he was reluctant and I bet you have tons of questions for yo...

Love Diseases Going viral

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What is an  STD ? A  STD  is a sexually transmitted disease, some are curable and some are not. Studies have shown that it is becoming more and more difficult to keep up with all the new and different diseases that are introduced everyday. According to the  Center Disease Control  there are nearly 20 million cases of reported yearly and most of them are  chlamydia, gonorrhea, hepatitis B virus (HBV), genital herpes, HIV, human papillomavirus (HPV), syphilis and trichomoniasis. We may never wonder how a person can fall in love with someone who can harm your health, mind body, and soul. -Unknown We all say we "love" and that is why we go through so much with our partner friend etc, but is love the only motivation? what about our dignity? sanity? protection? We dont want to confuse love with other needs and wants....                                     ...

Sickness's at our door

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I had launched my brand get fit with t in 2015. Get fit with t, total life changes product , helped many women and men loose weight and maintain healthy eating habits. Everyday new diseases are being found, while in the mean time cancer is still flourishing unexpectedly in the lives of many innocents. Cancer is being controlled (to a certain extent), but how can it be prevented? While cancer is flourishing, GMO products is made in many foods. According to Institute for Responsible Technology , A GMO ( genetically modified organism ) is the result of a laboratory process where genes from the DNA of one species are extracted and artificially forced into the genes of an unrelated plant or animal. The foreign genes may come from bacteria, viruses, insects, animals or even humans. IRT also stated, " Genetically modified foods have been linked to toxic and allergic reactions, sick, sterile, and dead livestock, and damage to virtually every organ studied in lab animals. The effec...

Love VS. Used

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Before you read this I want you to think to yourself what does it mean to love? What do you think love is and if you believe in it are you treating others that way? Love can be very opinionated but it is only one true definition! Seek first what you believe it to be, find out if your definition of love is helping people or hurting them? Is it selfish love or is it love that can last a life time? This article love that can last a lifetime? by the Huffpost can help you pin point some ideas, and this scenario can to... While a man was polishing his new car, his 6 yr old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the child's hand and hit it many times; not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father.....with painful eyes he asked, 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?' The man was so hurt and speechless; he went back to his car and kick...

A Family Matters?

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According to the Heritage Foundation The family, centered on marriage, is the basic unit of society. Healthy marriages and families are the foundation of thriving communities. When marriages break down, communities suffer and the role of government tends to expand. Sound public policy places marriage and the family at the center, respecting and guarding the role of this permanent institution. As Ryan T Anderson PD stated, it is more beneficial, to build as a family to effectively give your children what they need, such as the time, engagement, financial to build effectively. With his education background in arts and political philosophy he is using those tools from college to study and research the impact and benefits from marriage. He mentioned in his article from a social scientist Kathryn Edin and Maria Kafalas in most low-income homes people are less likely to marry because they don't believe its necessary to have children. They believe the children come and the marriage ca...

No affordable activities after school?

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According to Serve your city Facebook page a small start can lead to a big impression! With just launching in 2013, we served at least 100 high school students to be productive in their city. At Serve your city we help disadvantaged youth have an opportunity to engage in positive and engaging activities in their city, to help them give back, and feel the rewards of helping people and helping their communities. This, keeps them out of unhealthy and unsafe environments. We did an Anacostia River clean up, which some high school students to participated and they enjoyed it! Currently, we also have swimming lessons at Deadwood Recreation center, which is free to DC Residents. Children are free also to engage in any activities with just proof of residency. Already we had several families to come and middle school aged children has learn how to swim! It is great as a parent to take leadership and introduce our children to programs and activities that will teach them things they will need...